Mastering Self-Control

Self-control is one of the qualities parents ask about most. Kung fu teaches it directly, because the art itself depends on it.

Start and stop

Drills begin and end on the instructor's command. Children practice stopping in the middle of an exciting movement, which is harder than it sounds.

Controlled contact

Kicks and strikes are practiced on pads, never on classmates. Children learn to use power with care.

Words as well as hands

Self-control includes speech: waiting to talk, answering politely and staying calm when frustrated. These are practiced in every class.

At home and school

The same habits help a child wait in line, handle disappointment and think before reacting. Discipline sheets let parents reinforce them at home.